The Wisdom Of Pain

My Dearest Aezora,

In this letter I write to convey wisdom to the sorrow you feel under the circumstances-

You should know it is not your fault- you could have done… nothing to change the situation…no way to void it-

I know the pain is great…but all will move on…the pain will never pass…never truly go away…but in time you will become numb to it-

The loss felt, in reality, is for the best in honesty and will strengthen your bond with your own self in morals and ethics…though  your trust in both is now shattered-

Do not allow the pain…the feelings to overwhelm who you are-

Do not allow them to consume you-

Do not be afraid to cry-

I understand the hate you hold within you is great-

You must release it…Forgive him if not for him…for yourself-

It is the only way you will be able to move on..the only way to even begin to heal-

Trust is such a fragile emotion…like glass…easily broken…not so easily restored to its former glory and beauty-

Give yourself time-

You will heal…your faith restored-

Nichiren Daishonen gave the best advice when he said…” Never let life’s hardships disturb you…no one can avoid problems, not even saints or sages. “

Remember…you are the weed…and you are stronger than you think…and appear to be-

Always and Always,

Futuristically Yours,



4 thoughts on “The Wisdom Of Pain”

  1. I wasn’t sure what to think of futuristically yours at first and then I started reading it more and more. Wonderful concept. I do it too by going back and telling my past self that I will indeed get past this painful point. I just have to hold on.


  2. You are directing a positive attitude towards a negative situation. Time will heal all wounds. I like that quote because I try my best to avoid problems when certain things are inevitable. I think it’s about controlling your reaction, the one thing we ARE in control of. Wonderful second letter.


    1. Thank you for the comment- These are things I wish I could of told myself back then- it would have made life so much easier to bear! That is, however, the point to futuristicallyyours!


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